Love is for People
I said "Sanjay loves basketball."
(He does. Ask him. I'm pretty sure he thinks the LA Lakers really are his team.)
Teacher Nancy heard me. Later she would ask Mama Lucy what the difference is between the English words "love" and "like." How could Sanjay love basketball? Nancy speaks English very well - hers was more of a philosophical grammar question.
In Swahili, except in rare instances, Mama Lucy explained when she relayed this story to me, the word "love" (penzi or upendo) is generally reserved for people. Things may be liked. Humans are loved.
It was literally incomprehensible to Nancy that we use the same word to love one another as we do to love things.
It's funny, so often we Westerners see opportunities to educate Africans. In my experience, we have just as many, or more, lessons to learn.
Like this one from Swahili grammar: Love is for people. Not things.Posted: March 29th, 2011 under The Foundry.
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